And Birth Brother came to my House for the first time.. They came over because it was my Birthday. and they came over and took me out to breakfast.. I was stressed at first. because this was the first time they ever came over.
I just never invited them, because I wasnt ready for any of them to come here. I was just guarding myself. I hope you girls know what I'm trying to say..
I love B dad and B brother, we get along great..
Any way Bobby got me a dozen yellow and red roses and 2 birthday cakes.. it was very sweet of them to do that.
Plus we went out to breakfast, I showed them where I grew up on the island. and bobby said he been out to that island to dive there a few years ago..
Any way, I just wanted you girls to know I finally took the next step and let them into my world. and i'm so happy that I did.
First of all I have to apologize. I didn't look at the calendar!!!
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!!!!
Second it sounds like you had a wonderful time. I know it's difficult to fully let them into your lives and I truly understand. Been there and done that.
So, do you find it easier now and a little more relieved? I know I did.
Thanks Girls.. And yes, I'm so relieved That They came over. I dont know why I was so scared of them knowing where I lived. Im really happy that I took that step..
I hear ya Tami on guarding yourself. However in my case, bdad had been here once or twice before when bmom was living here while she was preggars with me. He has been here twice I think since I met him and it still puts me ill at ease. I have NEVER been to his house, or for that matter my bmom's house. Though I did stay with half sister when I was in Tampa for a few weeks. Loved her to death but hated how she ran her life, such self destructive patterns. Now she is living in SC with her new supposed beau and her kids. Still no contact from that side of the family. I have been told via bmom's sister that I was being way too judgemental. No word from bdad either but then I have not expected and quite honestly I don't expect to ever hear from them again.
I'm, sorry lyn that you havent heard from them.. Now that your bsister moved to SC. and is doing better with her life, Have you had any contact with her at all?
Its funny, I have always wanted a sister and now I have one. but I'm so much closer to my bbrother on bdad side.. peggy and I do have a good thing going on.. but I have just gotten closer to bobby then peggy..
In may I'm driving birth mom her hubby up to Ind. to see peggy.. In a way I cant wait. I just dont want to do that long drive up there..
I really wish peggy lived here in florida, So we can get to know each other better. Yes we do talk on the phone all the time. But it would have been nice to be able to see her and do things with her. like I get to do with bobby..
I still have 3 more sisters on bdad side that i havent even met.. Not sure If 2 of them know about me yet. one did email me, but she was kind of Bi**hy, and all she did was talked trash about bdad and her mother.
she emailed me a couple of times in one day, and I did reply back to her, but after that she didnt want anything to do with me. Oh Well! her lost, not mine.
