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Single and.... looking?


Well, I've never dated much... but I'm actually considering....



dating. :terror:

Am I the only single on the scene these days? How terrifying is to date these days? Are there new things I need to know? So far my grand total of dates is...

1. And a half. I think. Not sure it was a date... but it felt date-like. :scrunches forehead: Can you tell by who pays? If you pay for yourself is it Not a date? If she pays for me is it date? If I pay for her?

oy! Maybe I'm not ready! lol.

I think dating is going to require a lot of alcohol. Anyone want to share a pitcher of margaritas?


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I nearly died laughing when I read "If I pay for her?" I have sex on the brain because my first reaction was "hooker"

Dating, hmm considering I got into this relationship by my persistance in making friends with the "tech" guy at the college I attend and him asking me if I had ever seen Polar Express last New Year's eve and if I wanted to see it at his place (simple innocent evening amazingly enough).

I can tell you I have tried Internet dating, I have never felt like a piece of meat until I started that and ohhh the idiots I had to go through! I have come to the conclusion finally that you have to be friends before you can get involved. Been down the" just sex" road and it's not for me.


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yeahhh... I guess that did sound kinda wrong. LOL

But follow me here woman! I'm a dating baby. I know nothing! :sigh: She did buy me a christmas present. lol. And I STILL don't know if it was a date! :rolls eyes:

I think I might be hopeless.

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I think it would depend on who asked who to dinner.  That would determain if it were meant as a date or not. Does that make sense..so, this is what I would do..if it was enjoyable and she's still around..when you have a few extra bucks you ask her out to dinner or coffee...that would be a date. :)


 


Good luck!



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I agree with Trina.  Dating is not always easy and can be very confusing. 

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oh lordy. I don't remember who actually asked.. I think it was her. Either way... I like the idea of asking HER and paying... that way I know it's a date... lol

Oy. My head hurts! heehee

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I like that idea, you pay, and then you can play by your own rules....and then its a date!!!

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I must still have sex on the brain because playing by my rules means a whole nother thing.

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*hugs* my friend!


I don't have any real wisdom to offer - I've decided that I just don't like the whole 'dating game' - cuz, ya I tried it on & off over the past year and it felt very game-like - k, I'm gonna stop now b/c I'm feeling rather cynical about the whole topic at the moment...


but I do wish you the best of luck! =)



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No harm in being blunt and honest about it...call it a date.  And if you pay, then you know for sure it was one!

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